For no other reason than I love my boys this post is all about them! A couple of weeks ago I was looking through my photos and couldn’t find very many of my hubby. Now how can I scrap things about him if I don’t have the photos? So on father’s day I thought it would be a good opportunity, and I thought why not try and get all 3 of them together too? A much harder task than I would like!!! Trying to get 3 boys to look at the camera and smile NATURALLY, argh. But I did get a couple of pretty nice photos!
I don’t know if I have talked about Steve and my weekly activity before. Every week we take turns to organise something. We started earlier in the year beginning with the letter A. We use the letter of the alphabet as a quide, it gives us a starter. It is fun and we have done a few things, most revolving around food, LOL. Most of the time we involve the boys, but occasionally we do it just the 2 of us. Well were up to R and it was Steves turn yesterday. I reminded him at lunch time and as usual, with both of us, he didn’t have anything planned already. But, he made a phone call…outside…of which Tobyn heard some of and said, ‘Why are you organising a baby sitter?’ And I heard. Steve said ‘why do you think I made the phone call outside? It was not meant to be heard by Mum’ LOL. Anyway he organised a baby sitter, though it had to be early, 5.30pm. He told me I had to ‘dress up’ a little. He went out and got a few things for the boys for tea and was longer than I would have thought it would take. As we were about to leave I went to go out the front door and he said no come this way…down to the bedroom and he had Red Roses and Roses Chocolates and we were going on a Romantic Outing to a Restaurant called Rendezvous. Didn’t he do well? It was lovely if a little unsual, we must do it more often! We were home by 7.30pm though, LOL. Larissa had to be home by 8.30 because she has exams this week. Isaac was a little naughty and wouldn’t have a bath for her, or go to bed, he thought it was all a great game, LOL.
He’s going to shoot me for this next photo! He likes me to pose nicely when he takes photos of me. Well shouldn’t he recipricate for me? And this is what I get, LOL
This weeked Steve and his Dad spent all day Saturday pulling out about 30 red robins to transplant down the hill in preparation for the retaining wall to finally be built. We have been waiting for close to 2 years for a retaining wall to be built and stop our hill falling away. I had a guy recommended, he came and had a look, drew up a plan and we said yep go for it. A year later he had not come and done anything. After numerous phone calls and promises of coming we heard nothing. Finally he told Steve he had decided he wouldn’t do it. He wasn’t going to call us, GRR! He said he didn’t think our budget would be big enough to cover what we wanted him to do. He didn’t give us a chance to say whether we would up our budget though. But he did put us onto another guy. This guy came around the day we called him. He was a great guy, he had some good ideas and was open about legal issues etc. So we said go away and come back to us with a cost. Which he did and within days we had a quote, which we were very happy with and told him, ‘go for it’ Well that was back in Febuary. Yes I know it has been wet over the winter, but what about before winter? Oh he got a bigger job, at the Manawatu race course. Now I completely understand that he would want to take a bigger paying job, but a courtesy call to let us know what was going on isn’t too much to ask. So last week Steve gave him the final ‘we need a date!!!’ call. He said he will be here mid this week. If we don’t see him by the end of the week we will have to try somewhere else. I really do hope we don’t have to go somewhere else! It was great to have the kick up the a** for Steve to move the red robins, and it is amazing to see how much more space there is with them gone. We had thought we didn’t have space for a trampoline but now we do! So even if the retaining wall doesn’t get done before Christmas we can still get a tramp for the boys. And i do mean boyS, Steve is looking forward to having a trampoline too, LOL.
Well I got a bit off track with my blog post about my boys.
Tobyn has been on track at school. It does take effort on our part to keep him motivated and positive. But when we are all on board he does really well and gets really positive comments from school. But every now and then I get a comment that concerns me. A few weeks ago his teacher told me of an incident at production practice. Apparently he had back chatted a teacher and was rude. This was a complete surprise to both his teacher and I, Tobyn is never rude! He has a negative attitude and looks moody often, but he is never rude. So I had a talk with him to find out what was going on. He isn’t enjoying the production…why? Because he can’t act the way he thinks he should as a goblin and Mrs D won’t listen to any of the kids ideas. OK I understand that would frustrate you, but Mrs D is the director and has to direct all the children so it is easier for her to have everyone do what she says. And about the rudeness, what was going on there. He didn’t really know and the incident I said he didn’t think he had been rude. But he did agree that he should apologise to the teacher concerned. So the next morning the 2 of us went to the teacher, he apologised and had a nice positive attitude. The teacher was pleasantly surprised and thanked him. When I said about the rudeness she said that wasn’t her, the not following instructions was but the rude thing she thought was Mrs D. So I asked Tobyn if he should apologise to Mrs D, which he didn’t hesitate in saying yes. SO we went to Mrs D and with a nice clear positive voice he apologised. She was very positive back and said what a big, mature thing that was. She was impressed and she has always been a bit negative with Tobyn. He proceeded to say that he would work harder at production because he really wants to be in the production and she said she was thrilled because he would leave a big hole, he is a great actor and does the dance really well, and when he is on the ball he is fantastic. you could see his face light up and his positive attitude has been so great to see. But I know that even the smallest thing can push him down again. I think we are going to have to watch him in the pre teens and teens, I want him to know that we are here for him if he ever has any issues. And after the apologies I brought up the rudeness with her and she said he hadn’t been rude, just a poor, moody attitude. So it appears that he actually wasn’t rude at all…go figure, chinese whispers are a terrible thing!
Isaac is as usual charming everyone he meets. He has stepped his language up another notch and we have awesome conversations. He has an imaginary friend call Tiger, he is a friendly tiger and he goes EVERYWHERE with Isaac. If I forget to buckle him in the car I have to stop and buckle him in. A couple of weeks ago Tiger was visiting the King at the King’s castle, a tall building in town, we had to stop and pick him up. Steve had to get out of the car and get tiger! Anyone else done this for their kids? I love it, I love his imagination, I love how vivid it is, although that can back fire at times too because he has had some vivid dreams too, and quite scary ones I think. During play he talks with his imaginary friends and makes his toys talk to each other. I could go on, but this post is long enough I will put more into another post.
Here are photos of him with his friends, Adele’s twins, Alyssa and Caitlin. Doing their favourite little rhyme.
Criss Cross, Apple sauce,
Spiders running up your back,
Warm breezes,
tight squeezes
now you’ve got the tickles
And lastly exciting news for me, My stampin’ up! box arrived on Friday. I have spent the weekend looking at my stuff, watching theDVD and thinking about the ways I can make my business successful. I want this to be a business not just a hobby, so got to work hard! I have lots of ideas, just got to figure out which ones re best and which ones to focus on first. I am hampered a little in the 1st month because Steve is away for 3 weeks, so I have to work out how to manage that. Fortunately My Mummy is coming up from Chch for some of that time!!! Of course she will host a demo for me, LOL! Yay. Now because of my pre occupation with my stampin’up stuff I didn’t get my entry for the Sketchbook Olympics done. I wasn’t feeling all that motivated with it anyway to be honest. I really didn’t like my entry last week, but I guess you get that when you leav eit until the last minute! It was swimming and had to have a nautical/water theme. I LOVE the photo I used, but my idea in my head didn’t translate to the page and I don’t think I did the photo justice. Anyway, I think I will bow out of the comp now and scrap just for me for a while, maybe my mojo will come back then.
Anyway here was last weeks entry, enjoy and goodnight, until my next visit to my blog,
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